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Happy reading...with tears in your eyes: > > > > > > > > > > In kindergarten your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who let you have the red > > > > > crayon when all that was left was the ugly > > > > > black one. > > > > > > > > > > In first grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who went to the bathroom > > > > > with you and held your hand as you > > > > > walked through the scary halls. > > > > > > > > > > In second grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who helped you stand up > > > > > to the class bully. > > > > > > > > > > In third grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who shared their lunch > > > > > with you when you forgot yours on the bus. > > > > > > > > > > In fourth grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who was willing to switch > > > > > square dancing partners in gym so you > > > > > wouldn't have to be stuck do-si-do-ing with > > > > > Nasty Nicky or Smelly Susan. > > > > > > > > > > In fifth grade your idea of a friend was the > > > > > person who saved a seat on the back of > > > > > the bus for you. > > > > > > > > > > In sixth grade your idea of a friend was the > > > > > person who went up to Nicky or Susan, > > > > > your new crush, and asked them to dance > > > > > with you, so that if they said no you > > > > > wouldn't have to be embarrassed. > > > > > > > > > > In seventh grade your idea of a friend was > > > > > the person who let you copy the social > > > > > studies homework from the night before > > > > > that you had. > > > > > > > > > > In eighth grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who helped you pack up > > > > > your stuffed animals and old baseball > > > > > but didn't laugh at you > > > > > when you finished and broke out into > > > > > tears. > > > > > > > > > > In ninth grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who would go to a > > > > > party thrown by a senior so you wouldn't > > > > > wind up being the only freshman there. > > > > > > > > > > In tenth grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who changed their > > > > > schedule so you would have someone to > > > > > sit with at lunch. > > > > > > > > > > In eleventh grade your idea of a good > > > > > friend was the person who gave you rides > > > > > in their new car, convinced your parents > > > > > that you shouldn't be grounded, consoled > > > > > you when you broke up with Nick [or Glenn] > > > > > or Susan, and found you a date to the prom. > > > > > > > > > > In twelfth grade your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who helped you pick out > > > > > college/university, assured you that you > > > > > would get into that college/university, helped you > > > > > deal with your parents who were having a hard > > > > > time adjusting to the idea of letting you > > > > > go... > > > > > > > > > > At graduation your idea of a good friend > > > > > was the person who was crying on the > > > > > inside but managed the biggest smile one > > > > > could give as they congratulated you. > > > > > > > > > > The summer after twelfth grade your idea > > > > > of a good friend was the person who > > > > > helped you clean up the bottles from that > > > > > party, helped you sneak out of the house > > > > > when you just couldn't deal with your > > > > > parents, assured you that now that you > > > > > and Nick or you and Susan were back > > > > > together, you could make it through > > > > > anything, helped you pack up for university > > > > > and just silently hugged you as you looked > > > > > through blurry eyes at 18 years of > > > > > memories you were leaving behind, and > > > > > finally on those last days of childhood, > > > > > went out of their way to give you > > > > > reassurance that you would make it in > > > > > college as well as you had these past 18 > > > > > years, and most importantly sent you off to > > > > > college knowing you were loved. > > > > > > > > > > Now, your idea of a good friend is still the > > > > > person who gives you the better of the two > > > > > choices, holds your hand when you're > > > > > scared, helps you fight off those who try to > > > > > take advantage of you, thinks of you at > > > > > times when you are not there, reminds you > > > > > of what you have forgotten, helps you put > > > > > the past behind you but understands when > > > > > you need to hold on to it a little longer, > > > > > stays with you so that you have > > > > > confidence, goes out of their way to make > > > > > time for you, helps you clear up your > > > > > mistakes, helps you deal with pressure > > > > > from others, smiles for you when they are > > > > > sad, helps you become a better person, > > > > > and most importantly loves you! > > > > > > > > > > Pass on to those friends of the past, and > > > > > those of the future...and those you have > > > > > met along the way... > > > > > > > > > > [crying yet? oh there's more] > > > > > > > > > > Thank you for being a friend. No matter > > > > > where we go or who we become, never > > > > > forget who helped us get there. > > > > > > > > > > There's never a wrong time to pick up a > > > > > phone or send a message telling your > > > > > friends how much you miss them or how > > > > > much you love them. > > > > > > > > > > You know who you are, pass it on to > > > > > someone who you want to remind. > > > > > > > > > > So send this to all your friends and maybe > > > > > those who aren't but just watch and see > > > > > who sends it back. > > > > > > > > > > If you love someone, tell them. Remember > > > > > always to say what you mean. > > > > > > > > > > Never be afraid to express yourself. Take > > > > > this opportunity to tell someone what they > > > > > mean to you. Seize the day and have no > > > > > regrets. > > > > > > > > > > Most importantly, stay close to your friends > > > > > and family, for they have helped make you > > > > > the person that you are today and are what > > > > > it's all about anyway. Pass this along to > > > > > your friends. Let it make a difference in > > > > > your day and theirs. > > > > > > > > > > The difference between expressing love > > > > > and having regrets is that the regrets may > > > > > stay around forever. > > > > >
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